Hello. I am Larissa Astara Gray, an inspirational speaker with a mission to transform sex education and conscious sexual communication.
My own journey through rape, sexual shame and subsequent alcohol and drug abuse has helped me formulate my talks and sessions.
I aim to empower educators, parents, and young adults in fostering open, honest and comfortable sexual communication. I want to reframe the way we view sex and clear away the shame and fear.
Our young people need to see the long term effects of positive and negative sexual experiences, emotionally, mentally and physically, from both sides in order to help them make much more empowered and healthy choices.
Consent needs to be forefront and boundaries understood.
The effects of pornography, TV and music should be considered.
Sexual journeys need to be prepared for emotionally, mentally and physically.
My mission is to reshape our perception of sex, getting rid of those awkward conversations, and the power dynamics surrounding it. I want to prevent sexual abuse and bring a much deeper respect into sexuality.
I was featured in a Channel 4 documentary called “Sex on Wheels” around sex and disability. I helped a paraplegic reconnect to his lost sexual energy while feeling loved, honoured and respected for his sexual needs and desires.
I have produced materials that students and attendees of my talks can take away with important information and signposting, around sexual consent and where to find advice and support.
You can download by sexual consent menu here:
My sessions cover many topics pertaining to healthy, positive sexual relationships. Aware of the need for better informed choices for young people, I rapidly developed a reputation for being a thought leader and a sensitive and authentic speaker to young people and adults on how to create safe, healthy and fulfilling sexual relationships.
I also deliver staff CPD and parent sessions on the popular topics of how to talk to or teach your children without fear and shame around sex and what’s wrong with sex, breaking down all the areas we are sexually disempowered in our society.
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If you have any questions about my talks and sessions, please get in touch with me so we can talk.
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