My Talks
In my talks, I invite you into a space of honesty, empowerment, and transformation. Drawing from my own journey through trauma, shame, and healing, I offer more than just education — I offer real, human connection and tools for meaningful change.
We look at the deeper impact of pornography, media, and music, and how these shape our beliefs and behaviours. I help my audiences see the long-term effects of both positive and negative sexual experiences, and how this awareness can lead to more informed, empowered choices.
If you’re ready to shift the conversation around sex — to make it more honest, respectful, and shame-free — then my talks are for you. Let’s create a culture where sexual communication is conscious, compassionate, and rooted in true respect.
Prevention of sexual trauma
Prevention of sexual trauma
Prevention of sexual trauma
In this talk, I explore how we can build safer spaces through awareness, education, and compassionate connection. This is a space for open, honest conversation, practical tools, and a shared commitment to change. Together, we can move towards a world where safety and respect are the norm.
The truth about pornography
Prevention of sexual trauma
Prevention of sexual trauma
In this talk, I dive into the complex and often uncomfortable conversation around pornography—its impact on individuals, relationships, and society. This isn’t about shame or judgment, but about unpacking the realities that are often left unspoken. I explore how pornography shapes perceptions of sex, intimacy, consent, and power, and what
In this talk, I dive into the complex and often uncomfortable conversation around pornography—its impact on individuals, relationships, and society. This isn’t about shame or judgment, but about unpacking the realities that are often left unspoken. I explore how pornography shapes perceptions of sex, intimacy, consent, and power, and what we can do to foster healthier, more conscious sexual culture.
What's wrong with sex?
Prevention of sexual trauma
What's wrong with sex?
In this talk, I explore the ways sex has been distorted by culture, media, trauma, and silence. What’s wrong with sex? It’s a big question—one that invites us to look beneath the surface of what we’ve been taught and what we’ve come to believe. I unpack the disconnection, the confusion, and the harm that often surrounds sexual expression
In this talk, I explore the ways sex has been distorted by culture, media, trauma, and silence. What’s wrong with sex? It’s a big question—one that invites us to look beneath the surface of what we’ve been taught and what we’ve come to believe. I unpack the disconnection, the confusion, and the harm that often surrounds sexual expression today, and I offer a path toward reclaiming sex as something rooted in truth, consent, connection, and wholeness.
Lad culture
Prevention of sexual trauma
What's wrong with sex?
In this talk, I take a close look at lad culture. I unpack the humour, the peer pressure, the silence, and the harm that often hides beneath the surface. This isn’t about blame—it’s about awareness, accountability, and change. Together, we’ll explore how we can challenge harmful norms and create space for healthier, more respectful ways o
In this talk, I take a close look at lad culture. I unpack the humour, the peer pressure, the silence, and the harm that often hides beneath the surface. This isn’t about blame—it’s about awareness, accountability, and change. Together, we’ll explore how we can challenge harmful norms and create space for healthier, more respectful ways of being—especially for young men navigating identity in a culture that doesn’t always serve them.
Respect, honesty, compassion, consent and boundaries
Respect, honesty, compassion, consent and boundaries
Respect, honesty, compassion, consent and boundaries
In this talk, I explore the core principles that shape healthy, meaningful relationships—respect, honesty, compassion, consent, and boundaries. These words are often used, but not always understood or practiced in everyday life. I break them down through real stories, gentle reflection, and practical guidance, inviting us to look at how we relate to ourselves and others.
Are you ready for sex?
Respect, honesty, compassion, consent and boundaries
Respect, honesty, compassion, consent and boundaries
This talk is an honest, down-to-earth exploration of a question we don’t ask enough: Are you truly ready for sex? Not just physically, but emotionally, mentally, and relationally. I invite you to pause and reflect on what readiness really means—beyond pressure, performance, or expectation. Whether you’re navigating your first experiences
This talk is an honest, down-to-earth exploration of a question we don’t ask enough: Are you truly ready for sex? Not just physically, but emotionally, mentally, and relationally. I invite you to pause and reflect on what readiness really means—beyond pressure, performance, or expectation. Whether you’re navigating your first experiences or rethinking your relationship to sex, this is a space to explore with curiosity, care, and courage.
Are you ready to be a parent?
Respect, honesty, compassion, consent and boundaries
Are you ready to be a parent?
In this talk, I invite you into a heartfelt and honest exploration of what it really means to become a parent. We’ll look at the deeper layers of parenting: our own childhood wounds, our values, the dynamics we want to break or pass on, and the kind of presence we’re willing to bring. This is a space for reflection, not perfection. Whethe
In this talk, I invite you into a heartfelt and honest exploration of what it really means to become a parent. We’ll look at the deeper layers of parenting: our own childhood wounds, our values, the dynamics we want to break or pass on, and the kind of presence we’re willing to bring. This is a space for reflection, not perfection. Whether you’re considering parenthood, already on the path, or simply curious, this conversation is about conscious choice, compassion, and generational healing.